Community and Society

minding my own business is not good. i know and i am well aware of that. it's not good especially when we are in new environment and new faces of friends come around. thats life. it evolves.

there were times when i thought of denying the fact that we need to mingle around because it's just not of my preference. let me live in my comfort zone with a bunch of friends whom i trusted and i can rely on and the ones i can tolerate. that saves my energy of trying hard to think of what topic to talk. as i grew older, i tried to talk to strangers. asking cliche questions to break the awkwardness and to warm the air around me. my first talk with strangers was always good and i had good impression of them. i was happy i made the right choice to open up.

and again, i was destined to meet another bunch of new faces and people. i didn't know whether i should be mature or just answer when i was asked. well, i didn't give much thought to that and let things flow naturally.

we're not always luckily. so i met a few new people though not much. yeah i made a few. i got the impression that not all people are like me. some may have different ways of dealing with people. so i have to be more flexible. again, i talked to another person and yet i got depressing outcomes. i gave up of making new friends. that might just her/him behaving that way. others may not. you see i am not being fair. sometimes a tiny part of a community gives impression of others too. you get me? seperti kata pepatah ''kerana nila setitik rosak susu sebelanga''.